EXCLUSIVE: Kaye Davis, a nurse from Portsmouth, opened up about the best things about being swinger. And while she said it wasn’t always about s ex, watching her husband make love to other women is ‘amazing’
A nurse who feared she had missed out on playing the field having always been in long-term relationships spoke about the most thrilling part of becoming a swinger.
Kaye Davis is on a mission to prove that “there’s life after 44” and in recent years she has had more fun than ever before after a radical lifestyle change.
She recently got married to her partner of ten years and they are relishing the honeymoon period – by inviting other couples into the bedroom.
And asked what the best aspect of embracing non-monogamy was, she laughed: “It sounds terrible but we both love watching the other person have sex. It is amazing and afterwards I think it does bring us together.”
But such saucy encounters only came about after Kaye, who had never fully experienced being single, opened up to Paul, also 44, about how she was feeling six years ago.
Despite being madly in love, and having a “fantastic” sex life, she felt there was more enjoyment to be had without damaging her union with Paul.
They signed up to a swinging website together and had discussions about their boundaries – but over time their rules got less strict and more kinky.
After telling us her favourite aspect of swinging was watching Paul bonk other women, she added: “In the beginning we both agreed it would just be couple swaps and we would be in the same room but as you go along your journey your feelings and experiences change.
“We have both now had single meets and we come back and tell the other person all about it and you take pictures and videos to share. It has definitely progressed but we do like the couple experience just because you get to see your partner having fun at the same time.”
Their first rendezvous with strangers happened at a s ex club in London and the “petrified” pair anticipated only going as bystanders – but ended up bedding another couple.
It has been a wild ride since then and Kaye said great se x was not the only benefit to the lifestyle – saying their bond is even tighter and that they have met “fabulous people” along the way.
She added: “It has been fun and we have grown within our relationship and I think it does make you stronger as a couple. We love the dynamics and the fun side of it and we have made friendships along the way and it isn’t always about se x in some respects.
“It has completely enhanced our relationship. We were always a strong couple but we now know we can talk about anything.”
Kaye and Paul now profit from their raunchy meet-ups with a racy OnlyFans page – after Kaye was forced to tell her friends and family about her swinging activities.
This happened after colleagues at the hospital she was working at confronted her after finding titillating pictures online. And to read about how that awkward moment went down, you can do so here.
